Comments on: One, two, eight, twelve…I can’t count!

By: Alix

Alix — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 20:36:51 +0000

When you ask how many partners she’s had, what is it that you really want to know?

By: LL AJ

LL AJ — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 20:30:27 +0000

Another fantastic post. When I was younger, I was not conscious of what I could catch from someone. And thank God I haven’t thus far. However, as I got older, I have formed a pattern wherein I ask the woman, when her last PAP and HIV test was. I also have the habit of seeing the most up to date paperwork/tests before I go “down there.” I myself also keep up with that side of the practice…not just her. I have friends, and I have heard stories. However, I’m sorry, but if I ask a woman how many sex partners she’s had, it’s almost like checking her credit. Am I wrong for doing this? This is due to my well-being. I won’t judge her because of the numerical outcome either.

We have to understand that we live in a world, where there are so-called lesbians who do sleep with males sometimes. I can only protect myself the best way I know how.

By: Alix

Alix — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 19:09:21 +0000

Ridiculous in comparison to who?

I love ask people if they really want an answer when they ask. It’s not an answer everyone can handle…

By: Alix

Alix — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 19:06:07 +0000

And sometimes that means taking care of yourself…literally…

By: Naturally Alise

Naturally Alise — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 18:37:08 +0000

I hate that question bc my number is ridiculous, bc I went through a horrible phase in college, goodness gracious… so i usually answer it like,” it is a lot and if that makes you unconfortable then i must respect that and lets move on” bc I really aint a good liar or bullshitter, so i just keep it very honest.

By: KrisH

KrisH — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 15:22:03 +0000

totally agree…ppl do lie; about the number of partners and whether or not they have been tested recently because they want the ass and when you’re horny it can be by any means neccessary to get laid…the honest fact is, no matter what you do or what you ask that other person…you are taking a RISK when you decide to become physically involved with them. if you do the one-night stand thing or casual sex, go for it…i think sex is great, if i could have sex all day i would but protect yourself and make sure you get yourself tested regularly…if you’re in a LTR, chances are you think less about using protection but get tested together if you want…but you will never know what that other person has been up to no matter how much you ask or how often you ask so its best that if you are worried about it, do what you need to do and take care of yourself.

By: Alix

Alix — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 15:17:39 +0000

I’ll have to expand on that one. Never had sex the same day, but…Nevermind. I’m telling on my whorish behavior.

By: Alix

Alix — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 15:16:33 +0000

With the women I’ve been with, we’ve exchanged some type of paperwork to show proof of being disease free. You’re right. It’s not enough to just ask.

By: Alix

Alix — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 15:15:14 +0000

Wow! That is so great! *passing a gold star to you*

By: Alix

Alix — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 15:14:39 +0000

I’m sure many nuns are lesbians! Don’t be scared. Me and my first stayed together for a year and a half…And she told everyone she knew that she turned me out…